viewed over 1.7k times on other social sites https://buzzakoo.com/posts/28585 ................................ over 300 people NOW USE the following Modern Marriage/partnership Agreement Based on “Tony” a man that married @ 19 with his schoolmate of 6 yrs , divorced 4 yrs later , remarried with another neighbour girl that knew since they were 10 y/o & divorced before he got 30 . He wowed to never marry again or get into another relationship,until he met another divorcee & few months later she suggested that they write all the things they liked & the ones they didn t . They swapped the lists & few days later when they met again agreed on some differences & discussed with a lawyer if these notes could be used as a legal contract & 20 yrs later they re still together Few people that knew the couple asked about the contract so they created a copy for them to use . over 300 people now have used this agreement . Write a plan for next 5 -15 yrs: Kids , babysitting , schools , [both parents stay local until kids grow-up , no intl reloc. till the kids grow -up .] Share common costs , keep profits/wages separated Some decisions can be for each individual not together [buy a car with own money , etc] Any other decisions & concerns written on agreement for each situation & couple . Discuss with a local lawyer to see what can be included on the agreement & variations if circumstances change . ===============================